Relocating to Amman, advices

Hello Everyone,

My company has relocated me from Dubai to Amman, I am planning to shift with my two daughters early next month, and would like to know your opinion on the following:

1- It is better to ship my car along with me (how long can I drive it), and eventually pay the taxes on it, OR avoid all this hassle and buy a car in Jordan, or perhaps rent (since I am only relocating for 2 years)
2- I have to travel very often for several days, are there any live in nannies available.
3- Can anyone recommend a French nursery (2years +)
4- Finally what is the best area to live in, perhaps can you recommend a safe compound, with a swimming pool and a garden

Thanks in advance for your advices,

Mina,