Nice gated expat communities? (Bangkok)

Me, my husband and our little 2 year old girl is moving to bangkok very soon and I have been searching and searching on the web to find a good area and gated community in the suburbs that have most things close by or driving distance without having to get stuck in the crazy traffic that i have been reading about every where. My husband is going to work in Bangplee so i cant seem to get the search right so i thought i'd ask you all on here if any one of you might be able o help me where to look.Than you!