seeking higher-end experiences (Bangkok)

I just moved to Bangkok a week ago from Saigon and am looking to connect with people who have lived in Bangkok 5 years plus. I lived in Saigon for 10 years and have been visited Bangkok many times but still don't know it. Would be great to get "old timer" tips and suggestions for living in Bangkok for a single career oriented female. I am not interested in "budget living". I am interested in sharing higher-end living in Asia experiences.

Hope there are people like me out there.