Módena or Reggio Emilia (Bologna)

Hi everybody
I'm new in InterNations and I came to the Bologna community as I don't find a community closer to where we are moving.
My husband has been employed in Correggio and we have to choose where to live as we prefer to live in some bigger town.
I'm having a very hard time choosing between Reggio Emilia and Modena as I've never been there.
We have a 5 years old daughter and a newborn baby. I concern about transportation to Correggio, housing, schools for my daughter and lifestyle basically. I really would appreciate any help or guidance if there is anyone here that could help us with the pros and cons.

Thanks a lot!