Chrissie: Six Degrees North
Please tell us a little bit about yourself. Who you are, where you come from, when you moved to Ghana, etc.
My children and I moved to Ghana almost 18 months ago from a great seaside city in Australia called Newcastle. My husband had been working in Ghana for almost a year prior to this on a fly-in fly-out roster – which is really hard on family life! So when we were offered the opportunity to live in Ghana, we thought it would be a good adventure for us all. We now split our time between Kumasi, the second city of Ghana, and a town about an hour and a half away called Konongo, where my husband works. The children attend school in Kumasi.
When and why did you decide to start blogging about your experiences?
I actually started blogging just as we were leaving Australia to move to Ghana. It was at the suggestion of friends that I started blogging. I was never comfortable with the mass emails to friends and family, and so by starting a blog, it gave them an opportunity to see what we have been up to. What has been really great, is that the blog’s audience has really grown and I’ve been able to connect with people around the world, and made some good friends here in Ghana through the blog too.
Do you have any favorite blog entries of yours?
It’s funny to look back over the blog entries and see how we have changed, and how Ghana has changed us, over the past 18 months. But if I had to pick a favorite it would be our True Stories series, where we chronicle the mini-disasters we’ve had, trying to settle into a new culture. My husband wrote the first one and I wrote part II and part III.
Tell us about the ways your new life in Ghana differs from that back home. Did you have trouble getting used to the new circumstances? Did you experience culture shock?
Culture shock was very real, and I had underestimated how profound it could be. I think it was particularly exacerbated by the fact for the first year in Ghana we lived a quite isolated life on the mine site where my husband works. As to differences in our lives, we moved from an affluent regional city where we could walk almost everywhere to a developing world city; general logistics are just a lot harder here as there is nowhere near as many services in Kumasi. Grocery shopping, getting the car serviced, and with the traffic; everything here just takes a lot longer, and rarely goes right the first time! It’s also hot and dirty all year round; which takes a while to get used to, but means it’s always warm enough for a swim! Living in Ghana has also made me realize what a secular and casual society Australia is. Politeness, taking time to greet people properly and to slow down have all been excellent lessons from living in Ghana. It has also been interesting to live in a much more traditional and religious society, and as a relaxed Australian I have made plenty of social gaffs adjusting to a new culture.
One of the best parts of our move is that in leaving friends and family, we have become so much closer as a family; which has been, of course, lovely.
Do you think you were fully prepared for what awaited you in Ghana? If you could, would you change some decisions/preparations you made?
While we had done as much preparation as possible, I don’t think we were fully prepared for what we faced, but I don’t think it would be possible to be so. I even had visited Ghana before we moved, but there is nothing like actually living in a new location; particularly one as different as Ghana. While you can mentally prepare for things like malaria and such, it’s difficult to prepare yourself for the reality of living in a developing country. Frustrations like negotiating traffic, daily life, time management; thrown in with living in a culture which is far more traditional (and different) to what we had come from.
Every expat knows that expat life comes with some hilarious anecdotes and funny experiences. Care to share one with us?
I guess the coolest thing we’ve experienced came very early after our move to Ghana; we were invited to a farewell party at the mine for one of the senior management who was being enthroned as a chief of community. There are 18 local chiefs and they all came with their entourages dressed in traditional West African robes, with velvet hats and masses of gold jewelry. There were hundreds of people, and loud African music. We were just overcome with the color and noise and people; it seemed so truly exotic and quintessentially West African. Not a funny story but a really awesome introduction to Ghana.
Which three tips would you like to give future expats before they embark on their new life in Ghana?
- Firstly, to be patient and take things slowly! At the beginning we expected to get as much done in a day as we could in Australia, and it’s just not possible. It can lead to so a lot of frustration. While Ghana may be on GMT, it certainly stands for Ghana Maybe Time, and not so much about Greenwich.
- Secondly, be prepared to be treated differently because you are a foreigner. If you are not African, you will hear constant calls of ‘Obruni!’ which means ‘White man’. Ghana is not a wealthy country, and being a foreigner instantly means you are wealthy by the majority of Ghanaian standards. It’s a balance between being taken advantage of, and being able to make a genuine contribution to the community.
- Thirdly, get out there and enjoy Ghana! Ghanaians pride themselves on their peaceful, polite, democratic country. People are generally very friendly, and a smile and genuine greeting goes a long way. There is always plenty to look at in the streets and markets of Ghana, it’s a busy, colorful, slightly chaotic place; very different to the Western world.
How is the expat community in Ghana? Did you have a hard time finding like-minded people or fellow expats?
In the capital, Accra, there are a lot of expats and expat-centered activities. In Kumasi (the second city where our children go to school) there are far fewer expats, and many of those are long term expats; some are third generation! So, the expat community up here in Kumasi, while small, is pretty close knit. I guess it’s true with being an expat anywhere, that you really need to put yourself out there to meet people. Kumasi doesn’t have a lot of expat activities, so play golf, play tennis, swim at the hotel pools, even start a blog; and eventually you start to meet people. Accept all invitations because you never know who you will meet. My blog and sites like InterNations have been excellent in helping us set up connections which have lead to lasting friendships.
How would you summarize your expat life in Ghana in a single, catchy sentence?
Family of five finds a life less ordinary amidst the chaos, color and heat of Ghana.