Lippo Karawaci or BSD (Jakarta)

Where would you recommend to live Lippo Karawaci or BSD if you like sometimes to go to a bar or club where you can meet other "bules", where you can buy a glass of wine and maybe even places where they have pork on the menu.. and maybe some live music. I have noticed that this is kind of hard to find in Gading Serpong, where I think the main place is SMS