there seems to be growing Kabul community here on IN :-)
so on that note perhaps it is time to attempt a get together !
i used do a lot of these in London and i will say upfront they ARE a nightmare to organize - some people want one date another group wants another date, and not too mention how cheques/bills paid... and someone always wants to have a whinge...
with a Kabul event we have added issues for people - approved locations and unapproved locations :-D so perhaps the best place to start is to figure out which place is approved for 98%of the Kabul community.
if you are keen for a get together can i ask that you put down 3 locations that your security (if you have to answer to security) have approved.