Hi! I had been living in Southern California for 3 years now. I haven't made many true loyal friends and I feel a bit lonely. People is really nice but they tell you things like "Let's have lunch someday" and that never happens. Co-workers seem to want to keep it to themselves. My husband circle of friends lives very far away so I don't have much people to talk to that can drop and have a cup of coffee with me and talk for hours. How can I connect with people in a permanent way?