This is something different than ACTIVITY group 'Try before you die'.
With a few people I had good discussions about: 'Do you want to stay in NL? Lifelong? Really settle? or are you 'Undetermined, I will see what 'crosses my path'. Or: 'Determined to return'. Or: convinced to be able to continue a 'jet set life'. Or: 'Maybe a new partner will bring the answer/convince me what to do'.
I was wondering how many people would be interested in these kind of conversation...not knowing what the best 'carrier' for such a discussion would be (private forum?)
For me: I was born abroad but am Dutch and will stay in NL 'forever', it gave me rest after I decided to stay for good.