MOVING TO CHILE IN MAY, NEED VISIT SUGGESTIONS... (Santiago de Chile)

Hello, I am living in Tulsa Oklahoma and will be visiting Chile in February. I plan to move there permanently no later than May, so that I can beat the Winter.

I would like to know from some natives, what checklist would you recommend for a successful visit to Chile besides checking that all my personal needs are present.

I do not want to live in Santiago--something more small and quiet

What is the business climate out there? What do the people of Chile need?

What is the dating scene like?

Just to name a few questions--welcome all comments and help!