Can women have all???

It´s well known that in this society women have worked hard to reach the top and many have been successfull in their attempts to suceed, HOWEVER it is very very rare to see these women with the complete picture...

You see multiple men with beautiful wives, happy children and apparently happy lives,, but for a woman seems little different,,, most of the time women need to choose between career and family,,,,, it seems men are not wlling be consorts

Is it realistic for us to want all???