do you like yourself?

Some people love themselves to the point of being completely accepting of their own bad and vile behavior and words. this serves to keep them happy although they make everyone around them dislike them. but it is important to care about your ownself. just as it is vital that you dont reduce yourself to being something fit for the garbage bin.
unconditionally loving yourself? not an entirely good idea. cos it leads to very low self expectations. ultimately , life is for us to be happy in the living of it. and if you cant respect yourself, you can try harder so that ultimately your self love will be justified.
Am i right?Please comment.