Help for 2 committed gay men

Hi, all, i am a mature male and have been in a long term if not long distance relationship with a younger Kurdish/Iraqi male; we have met many times in Turkey and plan soon to settle there indefinitely; Any help or advice would be appreciated; Turkey is easier for him to visit and remain but anywhere else worldwide would be also of interest;
Please note we are low key and very devoted to each other and not particularly interested in the life style of other more openly gay people. We just want to be accepted as the guys who live next door image.
Thanks and any help would be great
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