Meeting Thailand women online

Meet a few women online and made it clear I want to get to know them 1st and no hurry for marriage.

So have one gal that after a couple weeks talking marriage and that her died left her money and properties locked up till she gets married.
So she is not interested in leaving Thailand, but mentions the lawyers, the money and marriage. We been talking and we exchange a lot about who each of us are.

So in Thailand if it walks and quacks like a duck is it? Just wondering since she could clearly get a local farang instead of talking to me.

I told her I do plan on a trip there but things to get done and would not consider a trip there till spring/summer.

Thoughts on this or is there a great way to test her to see who she is.

thx.