Who enjoys "SEX" more? Women 0r Men

It all started with a joke, told by one of my friends many years ago.
" A decent looking lady walked into a bar and went to the counter to order a drink for herself. When she overheard a heated discussion going on between half a dozen semi sober men. The topic was, "Why enjoys sex more"?
Obviously the bunch of men were equivocal and were giving loads of arguments in favor of their fellow men.
The lady kept on listening to all for almost an hour, till he loud discussion ran out of big arguments. She calmly inquired from the male group leader (apparent), if they were finished with there evidences etc.?
The guy answered in affirmative.
The lady the quietly asked for permission to ask a question from all present, and after getting it granted, she asked.
Have any of you ever felt itching in his ear, for apparently no reason sometimes?
All the men answered in affirmative.
She the proceeded to ask, " what is normally your easiest solution to that"?
Again almost in a roaring noise, everybody said , "simple, we use our little finger, put it in the ear, and after a few motions in all directions, the itch is normally satiated.
The lady smiled and asked, " what feels better after that, The ear or the finger"????
Pin drop silent.... What do you all think?