As an expat living for sometime now in Sri Lanka, I must say that most Sri Lankan men are considerate, compassionate and gentlemen to their core. However there are a few who lurk online on expat sites trying to get lucky (whether monetarily or otherwise). I don't know about other females but my experience on internations private messages have been appalling. Everytime I open my inbox here I find some nonsense about massages and meeting up for drinks. I'm rather tired of it. Internations has a monthly meet up and I dare you online casanovas to try pulling that crap to my face.