Lahore for Women

Hello everyone!
I'm new here, still adapting in Internations :)

Actually I wanna look for second opinions from foreigners who stay in Lahore, especially expat women, how does it feel to live there generally? Nice, comfortable, shocking (due to the culture) or hmmm horrible?

How women there do their activities? Because in one of the mix marriage forum here, the wives are kinda stressful there. I don't know whether it's because of their own character or it does that stressful there for women :s

My fiancee asked me to live there after our marriage next year, and it does honestly make me scared. Because in mind, it won't be as free as in Indonesia (my home country). So, any opinion? Enlightment?

Your comments will be appreciated so much :)
Thanks in advance.