I offered to open the door for a woman she scoffed and said under her breath "I make my own money and I can open my own doors." My favorites, are the women that think that you have an ulterior motive behind being nice and helpful. Ladies if I see you at the grocery store struggling, with your hands full and I offer to open the door or help carry your groceries to the car...I'm not trying to infringe on your Independence or flirt with you. Newsflash: There are still genuinely nice people out in this world!!!