What does mean for you: enjoying Sex?

Do we live in a society where talking about sex is taboo and our culture is more "phallos-oriented" (first the man, then the woman)? When a young man makes several conquests, one praises. If a young woman has conquered several men, is stamped. Talking about sex is something for men, say, normal. For women, on the other hand ...?
To enjoy sex is equal to the question: to enjoy sex for men?
What do you think about that?