“Interbeing” at Social Café: Engaging Talks on Trending Topics

Greetings Everyone,

Welcome back! Please remember this is a camera-on event, so please note that video cameras must remain ON all the time. Also, please reflect on the quote so that we can have meaningful discussions.

The quote for this event is: “Women are told, “You knew who he was when you met him”. No, she knew who he PRETENTED to be. She knew the personality that he FAKED in order to suck her in and get her hooked” – Matthew Coast

Take a moment to reflect on it before we meet. What does this quote mean to you? Do you agree with it? Why or why not?

Would you say this quote is equally valid for both genders?

Have you or someone you know experienced someone "pretending" in a relationship? What signs were missed or ignored? Can we rebuild trust afterwards?

Do you believe people can consciously fake a personality for long periods? Why or why not?

What can individuals do to better protect themselves emotionally in new relationships?

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DISCLAIMER: This is not a therapy session or consultation. We aim to foster meaningful conversations. If you feel you need professional help, we kindly encourage you to seek assistance from a qualified professional in your area.
Looking forward to our discussion!