Beyond Coffee With Suhail: Kindness or People-Pleasing? Balance!

Kindness is not weakness. Respect without self-respect becomes people-pleasing. Self-respect without kindness becomes arrogance. Healthy relationships need both kindness & boundaries.

Hosted by Suhail, who enjoys learning about people, cultures, and real human experiences, this social event explores how we can stay kind without losing self-respect.

How do we remain kind without losing ourselves? When does helping become people-pleasing? How can we set healthy boundaries without becoming cold or arrogant?

Together, we’ll discuss real-life situations from friendships, dating, family, the workplace, and everyday social interactions. There are no right or wrong answers—only different perspectives, experiences, and lessons we can learn from one another.

At the beginning of the event, we will invite a few participants who are comfortable and willing to voluntarily co-host the breakout rooms and help keep the discussions flowing.

We will then open breakout rooms where participants can freely discuss the theme in smaller groups, exchange ideas, share personal insights, and build meaningful connections in a relaxed and respectful environment.

Whether you’re naturally empathetic, learning to set boundaries, or simply curious about human behaviour, you’ll leave with fresh perspectives and engaging conversations from people around the world.